영어로 관계를 중시하면서도 현실적 경계를 표현하는 방식
If a close friend asked me to buy them something expensive, I would first want to understand why they are asking me specifically. Are they in a difficult financial situation, or is this more of a wish than a genuine need? My response would depend on the context. If it is a close friend going through a tough time and the gift would genuinely help them, I might consider it — not because I feel obligated, but because that is what I would want someone to do for me in a similar situation. However, if it feels like the request is taken for granted, I would be honest about my own situation rather than saying yes to avoid discomfort. I believe real friendship includes the ability to say 'I am not in a position to do that right now' without damaging the relationship. Saying yes when I cannot afford to — financially or emotionally — would build resentment over time.
Honesty about boundaries is part of respecting the friendship, and I would rather have that conversation than silently regret agreeing.